The joys of Facebook...

Scott James · 12-12-2007, 07:17 PM

To save face, the names of the sender and the people mentioned in the following message have been omitted:

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Between You and ******

8:06pm Dec 11th
Seriously, what the fuck? I must have rejected your friend request 3 times. I never much liked you when we were at school and I still think you're a prick now. The fact that you still think we're friends after you pulled my cousin (whose fiance was there!) at my wedding reception shows how ignoranta dick you are.

Fuck off

I never thought a Social Networking tool could get people so riled up. What's the statute of limitations on a grudge these days anyway?

Mike225 · 12-12-2007, 07:19 PM

And when he says you "pulled" his "cousin," he means..?

The Dag · 12-12-2007, 07:24 PM

fucked

Toyandgadgetguy · 12-12-2007, 07:24 PM

Weddings are factored +10 years.

Scott James · 12-12-2007, 07:25 PM

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Originally Posted by The Dag

fucked

Actually, no. Just a bit of tongue-tennis and copping a feel. On the dance floor. In front of her family.

To be fair, I didn't know she had a fiancee at the time.

Toyandgadgetguy · 12-12-2007, 07:27 PM

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Originally Posted by Scott James

Just a bit of tongue-tennis and copping a feel. On the dance floor. In front of her family.

And you wonder?

With all due respect... use your head man... or at least use some social tact.

Nitecrawlah2 · 12-12-2007, 07:28 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Scott James

Actually, no. Just a bit of tongue-tennis and copping a feel. On the dance floor. In front of her family.

To be fair, I didn't know she had a fiancee at the time.

Well, SHE did. She's a ho... fo' sho!

Scott James · 12-12-2007, 07:33 PM

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Originally Posted by Toyandgadgetguy

And you wonder?

With all due respect... use your head man... or at least use some social tact.

Heh!

It reads worse than it actually was. It wasn't like I was dry-humping her or giving her hickeys.

And besides, she asked me to dance.

Toyandgadgetguy · 12-12-2007, 07:40 PM

So why's this person hate you so much?

Scott James · 12-12-2007, 07:54 PM

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Originally Posted by Toyandgadgetguy

So why's this person hate you so much?

"Why?" indeed.

The irony of all this is that the "friend" in question spent a year married to his wife, knocked her up and then left her to resume his old (re: promiscuous) ways before the baby was born.

Hypocrite, much?

But I can't seem to recall what I might have done to any of my old mates (who were my best friends growing up) that means they keep rejecting my friend requests!

Also, I also seem to be losing people from my friends lists. It seems like people are adding me and then thinking "Actually, he was a bit of a wanker".

I always thought of myself as being quite amiable when I was a kid.

It took several ex-girlfriends, incessant post-adolescent mothering and a whole lot of alcohol to turn me into the insouciant, toxic viper that I am today.

wisper · 12-12-2007, 09:05 PM

T O X I C -V I P E R

BKMDog · 12-13-2007, 05:06 AM

It's probably best to just move on. If the guy can't let it go, and you think you've grown enough as a human to not do the sort of thing that got him pissed to begin with, move on. Let the guy roll it over in his own head as often as he wants to - that's his choice, obviously.

If you wouldn't do it again, then you're cool and your ex-pal is just hurting himself by continuing to relive the incident. If you would do it again, maybe you should hear the guy out and learn something from the whole experience. Hope this helps.

The-Spirit · 12-13-2007, 05:20 AM

I can't figure out how to use facebook or comicspace.

I've had them both almost a year.

But enough of my problems.

Sounds like a nice wedding.

spider · 12-13-2007, 09:03 AM

Wasn't it you who also had an ex that deleted you from her myspace and all your messages even though you broke up on mutual terms?

Dunno man, people are wierd, there are people on my list who're kinda cvntish and I've fallen out with them many times, it's too much effort to get at them using a social networking site.

This one time when I was very drunk I asked a mate if his sister would mind collaborating on some songs and stuff.

Him: and stuff?

Me: Well my bass playing kinda sucks. Oh wait..you think I mean....nah, although I would sleep with your sister, she's hot.

Him (with a priceless look on his face):.........

Me: I mean like....in a....mutual friend sorta way? Yeah, don't worry, I'd never hurt her, you can watch if you want.

Him:............

Me: I mean.......I......would you like a drink?

Suprisingly I'm still on this guys friends list.

Raven · 12-13-2007, 09:28 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Scott James

To save face, the names of the sender and the people mentioned in the following message have been omitted:

I never thought a Social Networking tool could get people so riled up. What's the statute of limitations on a grudge these days anyway?

When you hate someone, you hate someone, that never changes.

I had one buddy who had a bunch of guys we beat up in their friends list. They ended up putting it behind them, so it is possible. Just not with everyone, including me.

12-13-2007, 05:06 AM	#12
BKMDog Registered Trademark Join Date: Oct 2005 Posts: 1,242	It's probably best to just move on. If the guy can't let it go, and you think you've grown enough as a human to not do the sort of thing that got him pissed to begin with, move on. Let the guy roll it over in his own head as often as he wants to - that's his choice, obviously. If you wouldn't do it again, then you're cool and your ex-pal is just hurting himself by continuing to relive the incident. If you would do it again, maybe you should hear the guy out and learn something from the whole experience. Hope this helps. Last edited by BKMDog; 12-13-2007 at 09:55 AM.

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12-12-2007, 07:19 PM	#2
Mike225 low brow B1Tch Join Date: Jan 2002 Location: Right in the brainpan squish! Posts: 5,719	And when he says you "pulled" his "cousin," he means..?

12-12-2007, 07:24 PM	#3
The Dag Clan G33K$ Join Date: Mar 2004 Location: MA Posts: 6,813	fucked

12-12-2007, 07:24 PM	#4
Toyandgadgetguy Eat your vitamins. Really Join Date: Feb 2003 Location: The Isle of Long, NY Posts: 8,291	Weddings are factored +10 years.

12-12-2007, 07:40 PM	#9
Toyandgadgetguy Eat your vitamins. Really Join Date: Feb 2003 Location: The Isle of Long, NY Posts: 8,291	So why's this person hate you so much?

12-12-2007, 09:05 PM	#11
wisper Isreal/Iran October 2008 Join Date: Feb 2004 Location: Send Money. Maryland 20910 ,U.S.A. Posts: 3,557	T O X I C -V I P E R

12-13-2007, 05:20 AM	#13
The-Spirit Registered User Join Date: Aug 2005 Posts: 3,151	I can't figure out how to use facebook or comicspace. I've had them both almost a year. But enough of my problems. Sounds like a nice wedding.

12-13-2007, 09:03 AM	#14
spider Still has his job, HA! Join Date: May 2003 Location: Up my own ass. Posts: 2,220	Wasn't it you who also had an ex that deleted you from her myspace and all your messages even though you broke up on mutual terms? Dunno man, people are wierd, there are people on my list who're kinda cvntish and I've fallen out with them many times, it's too much effort to get at them using a social networking site. This one time when I was very drunk I asked a mate if his sister would mind collaborating on some songs and stuff. Him: and stuff? Me: Well my bass playing kinda sucks. Oh wait..you think I mean....nah, although I would sleep with your sister, she's hot. Him (with a priceless look on his face):......... Me: I mean like....in a....mutual friend sorta way? Yeah, don't worry, I'd never hurt her, you can watch if you want. Him:............ Me: I mean.......I......would you like a drink? Suprisingly I'm still on this guys friends list.